Leader's guide

Session 1: Acknowledge the Owner

Anchor passages: Psalm 24:1 · Luke 16:10 · Proverbs 27:23 · Matthew 25:14

Ownership is God's by creation, and a steward cannot manage what he has not counted. This session is about seeing what you actually have before deciding what to do with it.

Three questions to open with

1. If God owns all of it, what is yours? Name the one thing in your house you would find hardest to call God's, and say why out loud.
2. Is a household budget a spiritual document or a spreadsheet? Have someone argue each side properly before the group settles. The answer changes how the next seven weeks feel.
3. Luke 16:10 says the one faithful in little is faithful also in much. Does that mean a person who cannot manage two hundred dollars should not be trusted with two hundred thousand, or with church leadership? Push on where that reasoning starts to be unfair.

Play together: ten minutes

Budget Sandbox. Project the Budget Sandbox and build one imaginary household's month together: the group calls out every line, you type. Then, before you run the month, ask each person to write down on paper whether this household survives it. Count the votes, then run it. The argument about which lines are truly fixed is the session; the result is just the referee.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Switch the sandbox to kids' jars mode and let the 6-10s place the coins for give, save, and spend while the adults watch. Ask them to explain their split. They usually can, and it usually embarrasses somebody.

One action before the next meeting

Before the next meeting, write one page: what you own, what you owe, what came in last month, what went out. Nobody has to show it to anyone.

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Session 2: Work & serve

Anchor passages: Colossians 3:23 · 2 Thessalonians 3:10 · Mark 10:43

Income is exchanged, not extracted. In the long run people pay for value created for them, which is why service and earning are the same subject here.

Three questions to open with

1. Colossians 3:23 was written to bondservants. Does that make "do it heartily, as to the Lord" more demanding or less? Make someone take each side.
2. 2 Thessalonians 3:10: "if any would not work, neither should he eat." Who was Paul addressing, and who has that verse been used against since? Name one situation where quoting it would be cruel, and one where withholding it would be.
3. Is there legal work a Christian should refuse? Get three concrete jobs on the table by name and see whether this group agrees on even one of them.

Play together: ten minutes

Paycheck Anatomy. Project Paycheck Anatomy with a salary close to this room's reality. Before you reveal any deduction, have everyone write down what percentage of gross they think actually lands in the bank. Collect the guesses out loud, then reveal. Then turn on the employer match and let the room react to money that was there the whole time.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Hand a phone or tablet to the younger children and let them run the Lemonade Stand while the adults work through the paycheck. At the end, they report their profit to the group. Same lesson, a size they can hold. Open it here: Lemonade Stand.

One action before the next meeting

Name one person your work actually serves. Tell them this week what you were trying to do for them, and ask whether it landed.

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Session 3: Give first

Anchor passages: Proverbs 3:9 · 2 Corinthians 9:7 · Matthew 6:24

Giving sits third (before saving, before comfort) because it is the discipline that breaks money's grip. Expect this to be the session where the room gets quiet.

Three questions to open with

1. Should giving come before saving when you are carrying debt? Argue both sides from Scripture before you decide, and notice which side actually has the clearer text, not just the better feeling.
2. Is ten percent a floor, a ceiling, or an Old Covenant number that no longer binds the church? Let the group disagree in the room first, before anyone reaches for a reference.
3. God loves a cheerful giver (2 Corinthians 9:7). So what do you do in the month you are not cheerful: give anyway, or wait until you mean it?

After the second question has run its course, read the honest treatment together: generosity and tithing. Read it after the argument, not before, or the group will simply agree with the page.

Play together: ten minutes

Giving Impact Visualizer. Set the income near this room's middle and ask everyone to say a number out loud, what a working life of ten percent giving comes to, before you touch the slider. Write the guesses where everyone can see them. Then reveal, then move it to twelve. Say plainly, before anyone else says it wrong: this is arithmetic about what leaves, not a promise about what returns.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Give each child a real coin at the start of the session, not the end, and let them decide out loud where it goes before you close. A decision made in front of people is the whole practice in miniature.

One action before the next meeting

Decide your percentage in advance and set it to move on payday, before anything else clears. Firstfruits is a scheduling decision as much as a spiritual one.

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Session 4: Live on less

Anchor passages: 1 Timothy 6:6 · Proverbs 21:20

Spending less than you earn is the entire engine, and its fuel is contentment rather than deprivation. The margin it creates is what makes every later step possible.

Three questions to open with

1. Where is the line between contentment and passivity? One person here is under-earning and calling it contentment; another is over-earning and calling it diligence. Which of those two does your church tend to praise?
2. Is an emergency fund faith or fear? Proverbs 21:20 and Matthew 6:34 are both in the book. Someone take each, and do not resolve it too quickly.
3. Name one thing you spend on that you would defend as a need and somebody in this room would call a want. Say it out loud, then let them push back.

Play together: ten minutes

Needs vs. Wants Sorter. Project the sorter and vote by show of hands on each card before it resolves. Skip the easy cards fast; the session lives entirely in the gray-area ones, where the group will split. When it splits, stop the tool and ask the two loudest people to state the other side's case.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Family mode lets parents and children answer the same cards and compare. Run one round that way and let the children score the adults. They are merciless and often right.

One action before the next meeting

Find one recurring charge. Cancel it, or write down its annual number and leave that number somewhere you will see it for a month.

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Session 5: Owe no one

Anchor passages: Proverbs 22:7 · Proverbs 6:1-5 · Psalm 37:21 · Romans 13:7-8

Scripture regulates and warns about debt rather than forbidding it, but the direction of the warning texts is out. Treat this session as logistics, not shame.

Three questions to open with

1. Scripture never plainly calls debt sin. Should we? If someone here takes a mortgage, is that a spiritual failure, a neutral tool, or an accepted risk? Make the group answer with a word, not a paragraph.
2. Proverbs 6:1-5 says to get out of surety urgently: "as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler" (v.5, KJV). Does that mean never co-signing for your own child? Say what you would actually do, not what sounds right.
3. Snowball or avalanche: smallest balance first for momentum, or highest rate first for math? Pick your side before the tool runs, then ask yourself whether you are defending the numbers or your own temperament.

Play together: ten minutes

Snowball vs. Avalanche. Enter one realistic debt set that the group invents together, then have everyone predict two things before you run it: how many months apart the two methods finish, and how many dollars apart. Reveal both. Many rooms overestimate the math gap and underestimate the motivation gap, which is exactly why the honest answer is "either, but finish."

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Younger children can hold the timer and read the payoff months aloud. Then make it real at their scale: lend them two crackers today, collect three next week, and ask whether they liked that.

One action before the next meeting

Write every debt on one line each: balance, rate, minimum. Choose an order. Tell one person in this group which order you chose.

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Session 6: Multiply faithfully

Anchor passages: Matthew 25:21 · Proverbs 13:11 · Ecclesiastes 11:2 · Proverbs 28:20

Patient, diversified, unglamorous growth, and a parable that condemns burying capital out of fear without ever promising a return.

Three questions to open with

1. The third servant played it safe and was called wicked and slothful. Is there a version of playing it safe that Scripture still commends? Find the line between prudence and burying it.
2. Is investing in the stock market a form of gambling? Get the strongest possible yes case stated before anyone is allowed to say no.
3. Should a Christian screen investments by what the companies actually do, and accept a lower return for it? Argue both sides, then name the specific number you would personally give up.

Play together: ten minutes

The Third Servant Compounder. Project the Third Servant Compounder and let the group predict before you click. Everyone writes two numbers: what a steady monthly amount becomes over forty years, and what the same money becomes buried in the ground. Then reveal both. Then say the hard part out loud. This is arithmetic, not a promise; real decades disappoint, and the parable commends faithfulness rather than guaranteeing gain.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Give the youngest person the job of advancing the years and reading the total aloud at every decade. Hearing a number climb slowly and then suddenly teaches compounding better than any explanation of it.

One action before the next meeting

Find out two facts about your own retirement money this week: what it is actually invested in, and what it costs you per year in fees.

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Session 7: Provide & protect

Anchor passages: 1 Timothy 5:8 · Proverbs 22:3

The unglamorous machinery of love: an emergency fund, insurance, a will, a named guardian. Many families in the room are one document short.

Three questions to open with

1. 1 Timothy 5:8 says a man who does not provide is "worse than an infidel." Who is Paul addressing there, and how would you say that verse to someone in this room who just lost a job?
2. If you died this month, who raises your children, and does that person know? Anyone who cannot answer both halves has just found their action step.
3. Is insurance a failure of faith or an ordinary act of love? Argue both, then say which one you actually practice, and whether those two answers match.

Play together: ten minutes

Emergency Fund Stress-Tester. Run it four times: no fund, one month, three months, six. Before each run, ask the room to guess how many of the hundred households end the year in new debt. Stop at the level where people stop flinching, and ask what it would take to get there from where they are.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Children can count the households that fall over and call out the number. A bar they can see beats a percentage they cannot, at any age.

One action before the next meeting

Close exactly one gap this week: a will, a beneficiary form, a named guardian, or a term life quote. One. Groups that assign four close none.

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Session 8: Overflow

Anchor passages: 2 Corinthians 9:7 · Matthew 6:20 · 1 Timothy 6:18-19

The Path does not end at rich; it ends at generous. As income grows, the share that flows through you grows with it.

Three questions to open with

1. What is your number: the income above which more would change nothing you actually care about? Say it out loud. Most people have never once said it in company.
2. Jesus calls the barn-builder a fool for storing; Proverbs praises the ant for storing. What exactly is the difference, and can you tell from the inside which one you are doing?
3. If your income rose thirty percent tomorrow, what share of the increase leaves? Commit to the number now, while it is free.

Play together: ten minutes

Rich Fool Barn Builder. Play the Barn Builder together, but have the group vote on where to set "enough" before the simulation runs. Then run it. The vote is the session. Watch how much harder people argue about the line once they have to say a number in front of their friends.

No screen? Do the prediction step on paper and read the result aloud from your own phone afterwards. The guess is the part that teaches.

With children in the room

Ask the 6-10s what they would do with a barn already full when more harvest arrives. Their answers are usually more generous than the adults’, and it is worth saying so.

One action before the next meeting

Decide, in writing, what percentage of your next raise goes out before you know how big the raise is.

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